Parental Death, Divorce and a Child’s Death with Angry Adult/Sibling Children – A Tale of Whoa-Begone

A story much like any other family’s…

One raises a strong family with ups and downs, and when the chips fall, hostility reigns supreme.

One experiences a parent’s loss, without spousal support, care, or any other assistance… as Executrix gets to site, makes all the arrangements in a few days without attendance by siblings (as a parent dies once in your lifetime) but with the dead parent’s best friend, then returns home. The fallout from the passed over siblings is intense and the environment upon returning home is also stale. Why? It was not a profiteering adventure. It was grueling, painful, and worrisome. Money came in, bills were paid to final arrangements, attorney, house payments, and memorial items (including cremated remains). A portion was held back for settlement of the estate, still pending as of this moment, all the while one was working.

The staleness grew for another couple of months until it grew into areas of isolation with bouts of strangeness and repeated bouts of anger. When the parent’s estate burned to the ground… it appears that the golden goose that the unrelated spouse was waiting for… was crushed. The time working through paperwork for the estate, future creative business building, and working kept one busy with no assistance. Two months on ignore (finding solace through securing an attorney for divorce action due to extreme conditions) and a final threat of bodily harm, pushed one out the door.

The spouse has laid out lie after lie upon said person, however the courts are privy to all documentation. Hopefully the children who idolize the antagonistic spouse/parent will become enlightened. One did not divorce the adult children, but through careful manipulation by said spouse, that is what has happened.

Now an adult child has passed, the money-grubbing has commenced with a begathon. The concern for one is there is a grandchild that must be provided for and an account should be set up in the child’s name, with the child’s parent’s name, to assist with education and/or health issues, and be released to on the 21st or 25th birthday.

But if the snookered children had not loaned all their excess funds to a endless hole of spending parent to obtain a high priced defense, a begathon would not be needed, and the child of the deceased child would be in a better financial position. One’s conscience is clear and totally ashamed of the public display of poverty, where there is none.

Would do almost anything to be at the child’s side for the last time before internment, but the hostility of the misdirected can not be appeased in such a heightened emotional setting. Thoughts and actions must be for the grandchild.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Only in Washington State Could One Find GoodSpaceGuy on Primary Ballot

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Does GoodSpaceGuy have a chance to become Washington State’s next Governor?

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In this state of ‘weed eaters’ anything is possible… as he is first on the list… and the lazy millennials can’t see past the end of their noses. It’s ‘too hard’ to read past one box.

The freebie-grubbing and freely giving your tax monies away liberals will make it to check off Mary Martin for their goodies and the ‘name sounds like someone famous’😦

Never mind that currently and in the recent past the most hated politicians in history practice Socialism.

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Don’t Let The Door Hit You On The Way Out, Patty!

Even though it doesn’t really apply down in my old stomping grounds of Arkansas, it really needs to be the mantra challenging dirty Dems & Hillarybeast is their top dog.

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So past time for this
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Take the Liberal Lunatics out of office, kicking and screaming, 1 vote at a time! Washington State… it’s time to retire Patty Murray!

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First Mother’s Day Without My Mom

Mom,

Thank goodness we had nothing left unsaid when you passed.

You had a tough job, there was/is no training manual that covers everything, and you did it the best way you knew how during the erratic and sometimes hostile 60s. I believe I am a better person due directly to your parentage. There were times of prosperity and times when it was lean… such is the reality of life. Insulation was not one of your key components and I appreciate that to this day as I can be quite the scrapper. I thank-you and miss you so very much. Say hi to Grandma and Grandpa for me.

Love,

Bobbi

Coaching – A Tool Used by Manipulators

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to modify YOUR behavior!

It is used by the Lame Stream Media, Hollywood, Washington DC, Music Industry and sadly, even in your own home.

Coaching is the softest approach but a manipulator is…

A personwhoseeks to changeanotherperson’sperceptions,behavior or socialinteractionsthroughvariousmethods,whichmay be devious or deceptive. 

If you see it in the news…switch it off!
If you see it in the movies…turn it off!
If you see it from Washington DC…ignore it!
If you hear it in music…tune it out!
If you see if from your spouse…divorce ’em!

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Catholic Church Goes Hocus Pocus

Oh what a tangled web

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Embarrassing, the Catholic Church has not only achieved a False or Anti Pope… it now has push button votive candles.

This is enlightenment?

And yes, as a matter of fact I am Catholic!

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Wisconsin is a Symptom, Not a Usurper’s Win

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No matter how it’s being spun, the rigged voting status of various states, has now been proven. Anyone with open eyes can see the game being played against the American people. Why does the political establishment and Lame Stream Media derive such pleasure? Follow the money, and yes… it’s always ‘all about the money’ trail.

Is everyone an idiot in Wisconsin? I don’t believe so.

Then logically, there’s a game afoot to place another Usurper in the U.S. White House and for what future nefarious deeds?

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